I’ve been back in the United States for three weeks now and have gained so much perspective looking back at my study abroad experience. While spending my summer in Florence, I believe I grew as a person in many ways. Firstly, I learned how to be okay on my own. There were times my friends and I were not able to do everything together, and I had to venture out on my own. I felt lonely and afraid at my first solo cooking class, but by the end of it I was having a great time and met so many new people. Second, I learned how to be more flexible. Spending the summer traveling across Italy (mostly using public transportation), I quickly learned how many things are out of my control. No amount of planning and organizing can prevent travel delays or unexpected cancellations. Before going abroad, I viewed my plans as set in stone and permanent. Now, I’ve learned to expect the unexpected (however much I can) and am better at accepting what life hands me. Additionally, the people I met and became so close with this summer helped me see the importance in not judging a book by its cover. I met students from all over the world, and from so many various backgrounds. Girls I would have never thought I would be friends with soon became my closest friends, and who I now share life-long memories with.
Now that I have been back home for a few weeks, I can more clearly see these changes within myself. My first week back was mostly spent catching up on sleep-jet lag is so real! I’m not sure why I assumed I would come back and immediately be ready to hit the ground running, but I was wrong. It was a little bit overwhelming seeing all of my friends and family at once when I got back, but within a few days I had eased back into my life here. Studying abroad made me realize so much about myself, and taught me more than I could have imagined.